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This post will be for the mommies in the finesse family 👩‍👦I seen this comment under one of my post and I thought this such a good question since we don’t discuss kids on here a lot. I am not a mother but I am my brother’s legal guardian &  I’m not going to lie , finessing is extremely different when you have a kid. I cannot imagine how hard it is for ladies and gents that don’t have as much help or any help. I have a lot help with my brother and he’s 13 lol also he is very self sufficient. Now I also want to add before my brother came to live with me there was times that I told pots that I have a child but he/she was with their  dad or something like that lol. I really would love to hear everyone’s input on this especially the moms.

How do you juggle this lifestyle and being a parent?

Do you tell pots that you have kids ?

Do you include your kids in your monthly expenses so you can get a bigger allowance ?

I definitely understand it’s about giving off a certain lifestyle and providing a fantasy but I always say it’s up to you on  rather you want to let them into your real world like that. Also just a tip I would not bring up kids if they don’t.


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Anonymous

I have a 4 year old and a 2 year old. I have 3 tricks. Only 2 knows about them because they both are single parents and told me up front they have to plan around their kids. I felt comfortable sharing with them the same. But we dont talk about our kids really because it's not a part of our fantasy... For me, I do have help. The daycare teachers are always looking for extra money and so 2 whom I trust with my life, are my to-go sitters since I don't have family around. **ladies, if your kids go to daycare, build relationships with the teachers they are always looking for extra money. Also, I take advantage of lunch dates and day time chats. The other 1 trick is an entrepreneur so he's super busy (which works out) and is available after 7pm, which works out for me since my two go to bed around 730-8pm. All 3 of my tricks are loaded so, yes, I include my kids in my charge. I'm trying to not spend my money at all and stack my bread from them. That's the goal, right? Get them to cover all of your monthly expenses.

Anonymous

99% of the time, POTs assume I have no kids, so I never mention mine unless I’m asked point blank. My son is self sufficient, and spends a lot of time with his dad so it doesn’t affect me going on dates. My POTs know I don’t entertain any last minute plans, so I always have my schedule in place (without any issues) well in advance. I do not factor my son into my monthly expenses, because his dad is primarily responsible for his upkeep.