Do's and Don'ts on Dates (Patreon)

Hey Finesse Fam💕, 

Today I am giving you tips on the Do's and Don'ts of dating. It's frustrating to be the forever first date. If you can't make a positive and lasting impression the first time you will be stuck in a cycle of trying to build trust and relationships over and over again.  🙄 . Let's make a good impression so we can get that part over with and get to the finesse, the gifts, and the bag okayy.  😁🤑

Do be on time or even early to scope out the place.  Being punctual is extremely important especially to these old men 😂

Don't over underdress.👗 I would rather you be overdressed than underdressed💯

Do Flirt😉. Flirt but set your boundaries. Learn to set your boundaries in a way that doesn't make it seem you are repulsed by the person.  Flirting can be touching their knee when you say something or giving them a compliment. Looking straight into their eyes. Gripping their thigh for a moment. Gripping their bicep. I do this on just about every date.  Please don't forget to do these things.  Flipping your hair or caressing your neck is seductive it draws their eyes in and makes them wish they could touch you there. When they tell a joke you laugh squeeze their hand a little.  Please don't forget to do these things. 

If you need to set your boundaries aka if they try to kiss you. Simply move your head to the side to turn it into a cheek kiss.  Or place your finger on their lip and sweetly/ coyly say "You can't do thattt". A rejection but a feminine rejection nonetheless.Do not get in his car, or let him in yours. Cover your drinks, do not over drink or underage drink. Make sure you share your location with your loved ones.

Don't be on your phone.📲 This is self-explanatory 

Do text after the first date.💬 But make it finesse. "You know that waitress that we saw on our date. I literally saw her at the mall with her boyfriend!  He was buying her Chanel and she said you ought to come along for a double date next time 😉 What a coincidence right? !" 

Don't be combative or argumentative🗣. If you are one of those people that are easily perceived that way just agree with them. We already know not to bring up sensitive topics but just a reminder do to not engage because sometimes they bring them up😭. Make sure they are doing most of the talking on the dates.  You say you are easygoing but are you really? What did Whitney Houston say? "I'm every woman" Okayyy be that. 

Do remember your lie👄. Use a notepad to keep up with your details and which man you told those details to. Remember the script honey chile. 

Don't Dismiss him when he is trying to order for you✋🏾. Dismissing their suggestions is not feminine and if you do dismiss him say you are allergic or that it is outside of your diet (for example he tried to order you steak but you are vegan)

Don't bring up your financial situation🤑. Let them bring up theirs, pleasee 😬. Fill in the lines with questions like where do you usually like to dine. How often do you go on vacation etc. 

I hope that these date tips will help you get to the next date (which better be a shopping spree or at least have them bringing a gift. 😉) Let's be irresistible and have these men falling in love. So we can fall into some money💵 . 

All Love,

CNC 💕