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Lets get to know each other Q&A (Patreon)

Published:
2020-11-21 19:28:30
Edited:
2021-04-18 19:56:04
Imported:
2022-10

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Hey girls,

How are your weekends going? I hope you had a great week.

I went for a quick walk with some friends and their dog this morning and did an ab workout afterwards (I like keeping in shape). The UK has been on lockdown for the last few weeks so activities are a bit limited and its helped me really redouble my efforts with script writing, longer audios and other content.

On another note, I love receiving your messages and questions, but I feel like I always talk about myself and have never had the opportunity to get to know you all better. I would love to learn more about who you are, what you do, your passions and dreams. So let’s do a Q&A!

I’ll ask you two questions and you can ask me any anything in the comments section. I will answer them here over the weekend, while editing the next audio piece.

So…

1.  What do you do? And what are your hobbies? 

2.  What is your biggest dream?

I’ll start.

1.  Outside of Best Kept Secret I own and run a research agency. I was in the marketing space for a couple of years post-University, but I never liked to work for someone else. I prefer to be the one telling other people what to do (especially naughty girls 😉 ).  

2. My biggest dream is to leave a lasting impact on relationships and how girls and guys can think about sex and exploring their kinkier sides/satisfying their deepest desires. A world with boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wives and others more able to satisfy their partners' needs will hopefully have happier relationships, marriages and families. From a personal POV I want to have a big family in the future, travel the world as much as possible (not the typical touristy nonsense) and do more philanthropic work around lesser known issues in the UK and wider afield!

And my hobbies include, but are not limited to:

a)  Drumming and music (I've drummed since the age of 10). Great for forearms and hands... 

b)  Ropes, handcuffs, whips and other particular things (a gentleman can't disclose all his secrets) 😈

I would love to make this a space we can openly talk about anything, with no topic being taboo (within reason! - Nothing illegal please). Please drop your questions down below.

I am super excited to get to know you all.

Love,

Rob

Comments

Samar Farooqi

I randomly stumbled across this post and enjoyed reading everyone’s responses so it only felt appropriate to share. 1.  What do you do? And what are your hobbies?  I’m currently working toward becoming a veterinarian, in the meantime I’m a surgical veterinary assistant. I have a lot of hobbies (due to my adhd/crow brain) but most of them are creative based. I like to paint or sketch, read and basically anything with my hands (like renovation or knitting). But I consider writing my first love, I’m someone who gets a kick out of research papers (I might be a masochist but it’s just fun). I currently write poetry and erotica/scripts mainly. I love music, especially metal and alternative. Kink wise- I’m a submissive, love anything relating to restraints, occasionally teasing, heavy on BDSM and its dynamics. 2.  What is your biggest dream? It’s going to sound cliché or sappy but I want to leave my mark. To create something that will outlive me, if I get published (either it be research articles or poetry) I’d wish for it to truly impact at least one person. I’ve been thinking about it more recently but I really hope to be able to start an animal sanctuary, where domestic or wildlife can be rehabilitated and protected. On a more personal level I wish to be able to heal myself and truly live. I don’t want to have major regrets about situations or peoples.

Alia

It's great to know you better! I'm a Profesional illustrator in Paris and my work is my passion : art, paintings, drawings, music... And my biggest dream is to met someone who would share my way of life, love animals and nature, travel around the worldand who wouldn't be affraid to be kinky and dominant with me but always as a gentleman... 🙊🙉🙈

Vixen O’Day

Oooh let’s see 1. I’m a personal trainer and nutrition coach. My hobbies vary widely, I love reading, knitting and sewing (baby grandma here). But I also perform in a burlesque troupe and dance 2. My personal biggest dream is to own a little farm with my husband and grow our own food and whatnot. Career-wise I want to help more women grow their confidence with their bodies and show them how strong and powerful they are

Tamia

Well thank you for asking... 1. I'm a contract specialist meaning I negotiate, and obligate monies for our military hospitals and installations for supplies and services 2. My biggest dream is personally is to create the best life possible for my son who is my world. Professionally, I want finish writing my novel 3. Hobbies: swimming, trapeze flying, writing, ballet, role playing, wax play..... My questions for you: 1. Do you want to or have you played out any of your audios irl? 2. What's one of your top fantasies 3. Who would you want to collaborate with on one your audios?

ShhhhItsASecret1987

1.  What do you do? And what are your hobbies?  By day I work as a startup consultant which is just a fancy title for temporary office manager lol My hobbies include reading and writing, I average about 200 books a year. I also loooooove going to see live music (but that’s on hold due to the current pandemic). 2.  What is your biggest dream? To be in a relationship again, since we’re being vulnerable here I’ll be very candid. I had a pretty traumatic childhood which caused me to be extremely guarded, then a couple of partners who used my heart and body against me. So I’ve been in therapy for the last few years, because my struggles manifested themselves into avoidance of touch/physical contact. So this Patreon for me is a very important “baby step” to the bigger goal. Also Rob, have you thought about creating a Discord for chatting/interactions?

bestkeptsecret
>>48137948

Awesome! I'd love to see more of your drawings some time and I'm sure others here would dig them too. I'm always envious of people who can draw, I suck at it majorly. If I had 1,000 hours of lessons I'd still struggle drawing a stick man. Well I might know one man who is very kinky and dominant and gentlemanly to complement it... but in case he isn't available I'll tell the men of France to step their game up for you Xx

Leandra

Hello from Botswana 🇧🇼 and thanks for the questions! 1.What do I do🤓? I'm in my fourth year at university and I'm studying Social Work. Recently I've felt like switching career paths so I might pursue another degree in a different field after I graduate. Outside of my university studies I'm learning Chinese and French, I used to learn Botswana Sign Language (2 years in) but had to stop because of Covid. I've been learning Chinese for a year now and I took French because I needed an elective this semester😂. Now I'm determined to get to conversational level in both Chinese and French before getting back into Sign Language. 2. My Hobbies❤ I love to Knit and Crochet in my spare time, sweaters and scarves are my favourite things to make. I also love love love listening to music (does that count as a hobby😅😅?). Then lastly is my favourite hobby of all which is observational amateur astronomy, I'm still learning more about it but I'm really into the stargazing aspect. My favourite planet is Neptune😚. 3. My Biggest dream 💫 Well....hmmm.....🤔 I want to travel as much as I can as well as see the friends I've made online. I also would love to build at least two telescopes on my own. If I ever get to build my own home, I'd like it to be a dome home (I love Geodesic domes😋!) and I would also have an observatory in my back yard. From a personal view I hope to build a good relationship with myself, be more confident in myself, be more trusting of others and a little more outgoing. I have no questions for you as yet because I don't know what to ask but I'd just like to thank you for all the effort you put into creating and giving us these stories. I love them a lot, definitely my Best Kept Secret😜❤! Edit: I came up with a question😂. How do you record your audios? Is it just the voice artists in a booth acting out the script then you add other sound effects (opening doors, footsteps etc) in editing or is there more?

Joanne

1. What do you do? And what are your hobbies? I used to work in archiving and digitisation as a camera technician but I got made redundant at the supposed end of the furlough scheme early October. So I'm job hunting atm (if you know of anything hit me up pls 🙏😂). My hobbies include singing to my plants, photography/videography and editing, playing xbox, crocheting and sewing because I love being a practical housewife as well as a Marxist feminist 😘 2. What is your biggest dream? My biggest dream was always to be an actress or singer, but i gave up on that whenever I moved to London, tough times and rent ain't cheap chief 😅 Your content has kept me busy during furlough/unemployment though 👀 thanks Rob! 😘 Much love!

bestkeptsecret
>>48138230

What kind of clients do you get? Is it all balding accountants or the occasional hottie thrown in there?...Can you help me beat my rice pudding and dark chocolate addiction? Its preventing me getting an 8 pack. What's the burlesque like? The career goal is really great as well, I often wonder what relationships and love would be like on a grand scale with women feeling more confident in themselves and their figures. It's something I'm trying to think about more and more in the erotica. X

bestkeptsecret
>>48139207

What kind of novel are you writing? I'd love to get a sneak preview or glimpse if you have any drafts. I'm better with short form content but have aspirations for a proper erotic novel at some point in the future for everyone here to enjoy! Trapeze flying is really unique, how do you find it? Always admired ballet dancers as well, some of the most disciplined people out there. Have family members who used to do it many years ago. On the questions, there are a couple that have played out in real life. One of my top fantasies is a threesome drawn out in a really erotic way (e.g. we all have dinner, drinks, dancing, go back to a beautiful penthouse/luxurious suite, truth or dare, things get more heated and we really take our time to enjoy the moment). There's a few people I'd like to collaborate with from Amazon Audible (e.g. Sebastian York) and so forth but no concrete plans laid out yet!

bestkeptsecret
>>48139700

That's a super impressive reading rate. I struggle with a book a month at the moment (just being so busy). What kind of music are you into? I'm sorry you had to endure those terrible things in your earlier years and with bad partners, I hope things are progressing in the right direction and thank you for being so honest about it. I'm humbled that this Patreon can help you heal, it means a tremendous amount so thank you X Yes, there has been a few questions about Discord. I've never really used it before, what are the main advantages with it?

bestkeptsecret

Definitely don't be so hard on yourself, it is easy to forget but those in press, on Instagram etc. with perfect lives and spotless smiles are far from it. Everyone has their own insecurities and fears, the key I've found is to not compare yourself so harshly to others. Focus on you and being the best at whatever it is you enjoy. You will find love, guaranteed. ❤️

Just_call_me_V

1. What do I do? Call Agent for cable/internet company. Taking prereq classes for Tig/Mig Welding on the side. Not a lot of women in that field but it's great money. Hobbies are baking, reading (currently reading Labrinth), embroidery, weight training and paddleboarding. 2. Biggest dream? To travel. Had the chance to go to London a year ago for the first time and I loved it! Road trips are the best though. But, I've been staying put due to the Pandemic. Also, to own a stripper pole. Haven't taken any classes yet, but heard they are a lot of fun. Question 1: Would one or all of the VA's be willing to do a Q & A? Question 2: How'd you go about selecting the VA's for your audios?

bestkeptsecret
>>48145817

I'll open a job seeker section below the BDSM and Daddy sections 😂 I'm glad the content has kept you going during the tough times. Do you still want to pursue the dreams in London once all the COVID issues finally end or somewhere else? Do you mean a film actress or stage? X

ShhhhItsASecret1987
>>48139700

My music preferences range from string quartets (Archimia) to Rock n Roll/Blues and everything in between that....I don’t listen to a lot of Jazz bc I’m not really familiar with it - but I’m always open to giving new music a try. What about you, what are some of your favorite bands/genres to listen to? As for Discord it reminds me of Yahoo chat and yahoo chat rooms (which is probably showing my age 😂). You can have a dedicated server for your groups/channels/topics, you can also voice/video chat and I think you can live stream too. Plus I think it doesn’t allow bots/spammers to join your chat as easily. I’ve seen a couple of other Patreon creators use it to communicate with their supporters and to make it feel more like a community.

Vixen O’Day
>>48138230

The women I train are more like 60's and up and just want to get healthy so they can keep doing things they love. I would NEVER ask someone to give up rice pudding or, god forbid, chocolate otherwise I'd be a huge hypocrite. The burlesque is essentially strip dancing but without going nude. More like we just show glimpses to keep you guessing.

Tamia
>>48139207

Mystery novel, and as far as reading it I'm kind of a perfectionist which is why its taking me so long I'm highly critical of myself. I actually found trapeze flying on Facebook in my area which is d.c. its a lot of fun very freeing. Thank you for answering my questions your fantasy sounds very 🔥

Jessica Wearyourmask

1) I’m a teacher in Florida. I teach 4th grade gifted and 5th grade struggling readers. I love what I do and can’t ever imagine doing anything else. Covid has made everything more difficult. Our administrators tell us to distance and don’t touch the kids but when a little girl runs up to you sobbing and saying she doesn’t want her mom to die- you hug that child. 2) Biggest Dream? In 60 years, when I’m no longer here, I hope I’m remembered as someone that cared and advocated for what was right. Question: Let’s do a silly one 🙃... Are you a cat or dog person? If you have a pet, what do you think your pet would say about you?

bestkeptsecret
>>48145672

Hey! I was speechless after this response. I've never really met anyone who was an astronomer so it is awesome to discover someone with the passion. It is great to see someone into so many different areas of study. My old school used to have an observatory on the Rugby fields. How are you finding Chinese? I could ask you a million questions Leandra X

bestkeptsecret
>>48145672

In terms of the voice acting. Yes the voice artists I work with record with their setup and then I add SFX where applicable.

bestkeptsecret
>>48148331

How do you find the welding? I'm looking to do a road trip of the US someday as well. Explore the nature and more of the inner country. Some of my previous girls have had stripper poles, it is a great workout and very sexy when you can move well with it, I'd like to see you practicing on the pole sometime. 1) I'm sure some of the VAs would be willing. One is trying to become quite a serious actor so he may not want his identity or too much revealed but I'm sure I could coax others into it. 2) I try to find the best talent who clearly have some personal experience with what they are reading - there is nothing worse than someone with very limited sexual/BDSM experience trying to sound like they are a playboy/casanova...

bestkeptsecret

Thanks for all the messages girls. I'm trying to get round to answering everyone. If I miss you by accident please drop me a quick reminder or let me know X

bestkeptsecret
>>48204804

That's brilliant and I like that dream as well - leaving a legacy is something I think more people should strive to do. I always have huge respect for teachers and those in early education and obviously it must be a nightmare with everything going on in 2020. My best bud's sister is a primary school teacher in the UK and she loves it as well. I'm more of a dog person. Golden retrievers and German Shepherds. I think my pet would think I'm nuts, scripting and recording erotica all day and he'd be on my case about getting a real job X

bestkeptsecret
>>48139700

Wicked. I was always a heavy rock and roll guy (bands like Royal Blood). My favourite band are probably Deftones - make the sexiest music in rock by a mile. Me and one of my ex girls who was tremendously kinky and submissive, used to make love for hours with Diamond Eyes or Koi No Yokan on in the background. But I'll listen to anything if it is good. We'll get something setup with Discord in the near future. I think it would be good to have a more fluid way to chat and for everyone in the community to start communicating with each other more easily X

Leandra
>>48145672

I have too many interests and not enough time for them all haha. I wish there were observatories here but astronomy is not very popular both as a hobby and and a profession yet. Maybe in the future it will. I want to visit a planetarium some day. Chinese is super fun and not as difficult as everyone makes it out to be, it just needs a lot practice. I can only understand basic sentences, can ask some questions and introduce myself. I'm not perfect but I'm making progress! Well, I must say, you and the voice artists are really talented. I'm always amazed at the quality of the audios. Great stuff!

Jessica Rexford

I apologize for not submitting my own information but I really like hearing everyone’s else’s details! It’s not to get to know you all and have a shared interest connect us all. I feel like we’re in a secret club of sorts and it’s so exciting... did I just create sort of idea for a story?! Hahha looking forward to more potential interactions between all of us

Ash

I hope it’s okay that I’m this late. It has been a weird few weeks for me. 1.  What do you do? And what are your hobbies?  I work in advertising. Nothing too crazy or adventurous but it pays the bills and there are bits of it that I truly enjoy. As for hobbies I’ve really gotten into reading, more so since the pandemic started. I’m up to 60 books since April. No personal goal kind of going at it like Pokémon with a goal to read them all lol. So yes, also a pretty big dork. Hope that’s ok. I also sing quite a bit. Weddings, karaoke, randomly on my walk to the train. Huge music lover here. 2.  What is your biggest dream? Is it terribly annoying if I just say “to be happy”. I don’t mind what I’m doing as long as I’m surrounded by love and loving whoever I can, I’ll be happy. Question for you: in exactly one year so 11/30/21, what do you hope to be doing? Hope you all had an amazing thanksgiving and you were surrounded with light and love.